Basic Responses Children Need
ACCEPTANCE – The experience of being unconditionally received just as one is. This is a feeling of being at home with the other. The absence of this results in self-rejection or a deep sense of alienation or isolation.
APPRECIATION – The experience of having someone take delight in oneself. This is the feeling of being special to another person’s heart . The absence of this results in shame and low self-worth or low self-esteem.
APPROVAL – The experience of being congratulated for success and mastery or for the efforts extended on a positive undertaking. The absence of this results in self-doubt, perfectionism, fear of failure with manifestations such as workaholism and absenteeism.
AFFIRMATION – The experience of being valued for one’s individuality and giftness. The absence of this results in poor self-valuing, difficulty with discriminating and conformism.
AFFECTION – The experience of being touched caringly, stroked lovingly and embraced tenderly because one is worthy of being loved and cherished. The absence of this may result in retarded physical and mental development, difficulty in relationship, fear of intimacy and insecurity.
Comments
Share your message and and good thoughts about this post.
KemIntetjam
http://hifrino.ru/ best shop
Jan 31, 2012 at 7:46 AM
|
KemIntetjam
http://hifrino.ru/ best shop
Jan 31, 2012 at 11:05 AM
|
KemIntetjam
http://hifrino.ru/ best shop
Feb 3, 2012 at 8:17 AM
|
KemIntetjam
http://hifrino.ru/ best shop
Feb 3, 2012 at 8:45 AM
|
|
|
|
